Wednesday, 12 June 2013

The phases of life...

Hey there fellow bloggers, readers and enthusiasts, I'm coming back to the blogging world after 4 long months sorry for the delay, but the college works got in between. I would like to bring it to your notice that my this post is shifting from the regular work regime to our usual life, our daily works and how it mainly affects us emotionally, today I am feeling emotional as well my results came out and well everyone knows an engineer's result! Getting back on the topic at hand-





We all live our own lives the best way we can, somedays we are happy, somedays we realise our lives would have been better if we hadn't done that or instead of doing that we could have done that, but we forget, we made that choice, we made that decision, its no point lurking around in the past, but no matter how much we try not to think about it we always end doing the same exact thing, its a paradox of life, never"thee"less we always try, and thats what makes the difference.


Many of us, we don't realise that if we hadn't made that choice that decision, we would not be where are right now, maybe we learn something, maybe we try not to do that same mistake again, its life, it only shows us the "PATHS", its upto us to choose which way we want to go just think about it if you hadn't gone down to that coffee shop that day instead of going to work would you have met the love of your life? if you hadn't stayed to the work late instead of going to an awesome night out with your lady friends would you have gotten the raise at work? Remember every single detail, every single moment of your life teaches you something and that something is never don't do that or don't touch that its DO THAT, Do touch that, mix up the chemicals of life, mix up yourself mix up your life live a little learn a little.
Everyone of us, me the creator of the blog, and you the reader everyone of us go through same phases of life be it man or woman. I'm pretty sure you all know the phases, but I would like to note it down nevetheless..

1st Phase- We are born, we cry we eat we poop we laugh we smile we sleep and then we cry again, simple isn't  it, Life is always simple then!

2nd Phase- Somehow we grow up into teens, according to us we are awesome but well ask the same to your parents, the answer would be different, we get the same replies everytime- " Sharmaji's son got 98% , Sharmaji's son got selected in cricket squad, Sharmaji's son is polite Sharmaji's son respects everyone" Every single one of us get to here the same sharmaji's son we don't even know who the fuck sharmaji is isn't it, but it works we learn something and we try to make us look better the next time!!
(ps- sharmaji's son is fictional, he is a fucking douche solely created to make us better huma beings)

3rd phase- We go to college, in short we start to attain maturity and with that comes PMS, and its not just for Women, with maturity comes responsibility and with responsibility comes stupidity, which we all do, cmon accept the fact, with the increasing age we get tensed, some of us start smoking to relieve the tension (stupidity), some of us start drinking (stupidity) but most of us manage to do both but keep a raincheck on em, but keeping all that aside we learn, we realise life is not easy we have to look out for ourselves, we grow up seldom, then when we realise that we start to focus ourselves to get better results but does that matter? Yes it does but the fact that we have realised our place in this world makes us better people, we learn our responsibilities, we learn our priorities, and that's what matters the most!

4th phase- We actually grow up. After graduation we KNOW that we have to be there for ourselves as nobody else will, we start mending our mistakes, but when we grow up we become more emotional and we start to look back at our mistakes and realise how stupid we were, this is where we are wrong, we can always plan the future but we can never change the past, we can imagine everything all over again and again, but its not going to change, but hey we are humans arn't we! Its okay sometimes to remember those stupid things we did, and smile not curse ourselves, because everything around you will change, but at your heart you will be that lil sleeping pooping and crying kid! Learn to live, grow up but look at the past remember it cherish it and love it, because your past tells you how awesome you are, but keep a note you have a tomorrow, and you need to think about that as well!


4 phases I kindoff finished my stuff there, but my point is, you should appreciate yourself, you should love yourself, and you should learn from yourself, so Live young and finish your life's novel with a smile on your face :)

By this I take your leave I hope you found the post worthwhile well except for some grammatical mistakes which i am sorry about.. and we will get back to the health melodrama in a few days!!

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